TAKE THE FIRST STEP TO THE BEST MARRIAGE EVER!

Answer the questions below to introduce yourself and help me determine how ready you are for the Best Marriage Ever!

Once you do, we will contact you to schedule our complimentary assessment.

* ALL INFORMATION IS CONFIDENTIAL. THE BEST MARRIAGE EVER AND JACOB REEVE WILL NEVER SHARE YOUR INFORMATION UNLESS YOU GIVE WRITTEN CONSENT.

PLEASE HAVE BOTH PARTNERS FILL OUT THIS FORM SEPARATELY.

First and Last Name,

Spouse's First and Last

Phone Number

Tell me a little more about yourself. Please share your birth date, what year you met and what year you were married with locations. Also, do you have children? If so, please name them and their ages.

Do you have spiritual, philisophical or religious beliefs? Please describe for you and your partner.

What do you each do for work and what are your work hours like? Healthy relationships need several hours per week of quality time. It might be a slow process to rearrange your life habbits and schedule so that you can give your relationship the time it needs to be amazing. Are you willing to do make the changes needed to invest in the best marriage ever?

List three things you love or admire about your partner.

What is one simple thing your partner could do for you tomorrow, (or one day this week) that would mean the world to you?

Would you say you are both equally committed to actively participating in marriage mentorship and implementing recommended strategies for the best marriage ever? If not, please elaborate.

In 2010, researchers at the University of Texas San Antonio, found that married couples who prayed together daily had a divorce rate under 1% compared to a divorce rate of over 50% for couples who dont pray together. Would you be willing to try praying together daily for at least one month straight to see if it might help you experience the best marriage ever?

What would you say is the single biggest strength and single biggest weakness of your relationship right now?

Are you willing to admit that it might be your own stubbornness, bad habits and character flaws that are the primary things holding you both back from experiencing the best marriage ever?

If you could have God instantly change one thing about yourself that would improve how your partner is treated by you, what would it be and why?

Everyone comes into a relationship with differing ideals and expectaions about things like chores, raising kids, money, sex, etc... Are you both in agreement on these ideals? Are there ideals you disagree about? Are there ideals you have that you are unwilling to compromise even if those ideals are the very things preventing you from having the best marriage ever? Please explain.

Research shows that ~70% of marital conflicts are perpetual and ~30% of conflicts can be overcome throughout the duration of the marriage. This means there are several ongoing conflicts can be changed if the couple puts effort in to change them, and several will not be changed, even if the couple puts effort in to change them. The same research goes on to reveal that successful couples learn to understand, accept and even laugh at the conflicts they cant change together.

Are you willing to try to change things about yourself if it would make you a better partner for your spouse? Is there anything you wouldn't be willing to change about yourself for the sake of your relationship? And, if your partner earnestly tries to change the things about themselves they know you struggle with, would you be willing to accept them and give grace to them when they fail to change?

Forgiveness is about releasing perceived debt. Many couples are being held back from the best marriage ever because one or both of them are still holding debts against their partners from things that happened in the past. When someone holds debt against their spouse who clearly loves them, whether intentional or not, it is usually because there is a deep wound or betrayal that has never healed or been resolved and closed. These debts often remain at a subconscious level perpetually causing those who hold them to experience their relationship through a filter of doubt, distrust and contempt. It is not the fault of the one who was wounded that they do this, it is unintentional and often even unperceived.

Are you willing to accept responsibility for the wounds you have caused your partner and help them through the process of healing so that they are free to experience the best marriage ever with you, even if you caused them accidentally? Will you also be willing to release all debts and forgive your partner and bring closure to the wounds you might have from the past?

Close your eyes and try to imagine a time many decades in the future. You are at your own funeral service. Your partner has survived you and is now 90 years old and giving the eulogy about your life. What do you want them to say about the life you shared, and what you meant to them and what type of partner and lover you were to them.

Are you willing to make it a primary goal in life to get better at making your partner feel more and more loved each year of their lives?

Define your best marriage ever.

Thanks for submitting! We will be in touch shortly. Keep an eye out for a response email from Jacob. In the meantime, feel free to reach out if you have questions.